Before he died on May 31 — Memorial Day, as fate would have it — 78-year-old Lacey resident Thomas Ralph Mariano’s last wish was to be buried with military honors. There was one problem for the family of the U.S. Army veteran, who served in Vietnam and rose to the rank of sergeant: His DD Form 214, which proves military service and discharge status, was nowhere to be found. Mariano’s daughter Maja Meighan contacted the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. “They said, ‘It’ll take us two weeks,’” she said. That was too long. Distraught, she reached out to Vetwork, a Lacey-based charity for veterans founded in 1984. “They got dad’s form right away,” Meighan said. “The funeral home was shocked that they got it so quickly.”
Vetwork learned Mariano had taken out a home loan through the VA office in Brick, which had a copy of his DD Form 214 on file. Mariano received a military funeral, and his 16-year-old grandson — Meighan’s son — was presented with the American flag that was draped over the coffin.“The whole thing was breathtaking,” Meighan said. “My son has it in his room now.”
~ Maja M